Attacker who killed judge's son didn't hide his hate
If there is one lesson to take away from the tragic killing
of Daniel Anderl, the son of US District Judge Esther Salas, and the shooting
of Salas's husband, Mark Anderl, it is this: Misogynist extremists aren't just
kooks or pathetic losers; they're dangerous.
The man believed to be responsible for the shootings is Roy Den
Hollander, a "men's rights" activist and self-described
"anti-feminist" lawyer. He shot and killed himself after allegedly
killing Daniel Anderl and shooting Mark Anderl.
While the targeting of a federal judge and her family is
shocking, Den Hollander's violence shouldn't be surprising. This is, after all,
a man who called the Violence Against Women Act the "Female Fraud
Act," only to then to allegedly commit violence against a woman's family.
He routinely sued over what he believed to be profound sexist
injustices -- for example, women getting free admission to bars on Ladies Night
("a significant transfer of wealth from males to females," Den
Hollander wrote) -- and made clear that he didn't just oppose unequal
treatment, but resented women generally, and women in positions of power
specifically.
In a paper he published on his own website, the first line
of the content section reads, "Kill a Feminazi -- save a child." He
referred to his misogynist crusade as a "Jihad" and said that
"There is a state of war between men and the Feminazis -- total war."
In his missives, he railed against feminist judges and
feminists generally, whom he called the "self-serving concubines of evil
itself." He expressed a belief that men are justified in responding to
government and others with violence.
He wrote that "things begin to change when individual
men start taking out those specific persons responsible for destroying their
lives before committing suicide. When every life destroyed by a lying tongue is
repaid with another destroyed by a gun."
And that's exactly what he apparently tried to do.
In other words, there were more than warning signs; there
was a written, published, public agenda.
Den Hollander cannot just be dismissed as a lone wolf or
deranged person. He was a lawyer who had appeared in front of Judge Salas in a
case about another one of his pet issues: The male-only draft.
That case was handed off to the firm Boies Schiller Flexner
(yes, the same firm that hired the private intelligence company Black Cube to
investigate the women who accused Harvey Weinstein of assault) after Den
Hollander said he was diagnosed with cancer.
He's also far from the only men's rights activist who has
promoted, incited and encouraged violence against women -- or and has been
violent himself.
Many men come to the men's rights movement because they
believe they've been wronged by the court systems, often after allegations of
domestic violence, or when required to pay child support.
Once they're there, they're treated to a barrage of lies,
misogyny, propaganda and racism.
Men's rights websites and forums have created a culture in
which it's considered funny and normal to threaten women with rape and
fantasize about killing or injuring them, perpetuating a twisted worldview in
which women are at fault for their own victimization.
Lots of these men listen and take this garbage seriously.
Before men's rights ideology was rampant on the internet, Marc Lépine murdered
14 women in Montreal, writing in his suicide note that "I have decided to
send the feminists, who have always ruined my life, to their Maker."
In 2009, George Sodini shot three women dead and injured
nine others; he was angry that women wouldn't have sex with him as often as he
would have preferred. That was also what motivated Elliot Rodger, who killed
six people in 2014, and a dozen other men who have killed or tried to kill
women and claimed sexual frustration as the cause.
Some men's rights advocates distinguish themselves from
"incels," or men embittered by their lack of sexual success, who in
turn distinguish themselves from the "pick-up artists" or PUAs who
aim to sleep with as many women as possible. But they all overlap in the
"manosphere": The corners of the internet dedicated to anti-feminism
and misogyny.
Not that men need internet misogyny in order to kill or
abuse women. According to the Centers for Disease Control and Prevention,
nearly one in five women have experienced severe violence at the hands of a
partner. The easy availability of guns in the United States makes this
violence, pervasive the world over, particularly deadly here.
According to the group Everytown for Gun Safety, close to a
million women in America have survived being shot or shot at by an intimate
partner, and another 4.5 million have been threatened by a partner with a gun.
Fifty-two women are killed after being shot by an intimate
partner every month, according to Everytown -- and many more, obviously, are
seriously injured. Eighty percent of children killed in mass shootings between
2009 and 2018 were murdered by as part of a domestic violence incident -- often
situations where an angry man kills his current or former partner and their
children, and sometimes himself.
None of these men exist in a vacuum. Some, like Den
Hollander, erect the framework of a political theory around their hatred of
women and are savvy enough to use the polite language of the law when they're
in a courtroom or on television.
They often begin by working within established institutions,
seeking to undermine them -- using the courts to bring a host of claims, as Den
Hollander did.
But you don't have to dig far to see extremism lurking,
including the justification of violence. And there have been a disturbing
number of these men who have moved on from posting their hatred online to
engaging in acts of violence and terrorism -- not unlike other extremists
around the world.
For too long, though, American law enforcement, our most
trusted institutions and the media have looked the other way on misogynist
extremists in the United States, refusing to take them particularly seriously
and brushing off the hatred of women and even gender-based violence as
unfortunate but fixed parts of normal life.
Den Hollander himself was made into something of a joke --
though even back in 2007 he had a "typed forty-one point list headed
'Discrimination against men in America" at the ready to show to a New
Yorker writer.
But while we were rolling our eyes at the man on a crusade
against Ladies Night, he turned into the living embodiment of that famous
Margaret Atwood quote: "Men are afraid women will laugh at them. Women are
afraid men will kill them."
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